So I have had a very interesting year so far. My wife was pregnant and ended up getting and HELLP Syndrome http://http//en.wikipedia.org/wiki/HELLP_syndrome and had to have a C section at 26 weeks, that was January 2nd of this year. My baby, Lilith, has been in the hospital since birth, she was 1lb 10 oz at birth, she had problems breathing so she now has a trach http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tracheotomy and now she is having problem eating because she was on a vent for 3months and just got a G tube for feeding. So you may be asking what does this have to do with gaming, well to de-stress I just go and play a game my wife fells that its escaping from whats going on. I don't know what to do, Lilith is coming home on the 5th of May, she is our first child. I want to do whats best for her but also still need time for myself. How do you other gamers/ Parents deal with everything and if anyone has experience with special need babies any and all input would be awesome.