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Hey folks!

Some of you may know who I am, some may not.

My name is Ken Wozetek, better known as Mezmoron.  I was a very active member of this community for a few years as features editor, and left in order to tend to some personal issues.  I think I'd like to come back and become a member of the community again.

Here's my story (if anyone wants to hear it):

Where should I start?  Well, first of all, my wife and I have been trying to have a child.  It's something I have been dreaming of.  Well, in December, my wife got pregnant!  About 6 weeks later, we had a miscarriage.  It completely blindsided me.  I really had to think about life and my priorities.

In April, I decided that it was time to leave my job to go to another employer.  This was/is a great change for me. 

In June, we decided to try again.  Well, my wife got pregnant again.  4 weeks later, we found out that she had another miscarriage.  This made me step back from almost all of my commitments (except work) and focus on her solely. 

In July, well, one of the worst things that could possibly happen to me happened.  My father, 62, passed away from pancreatic cancer.  He was diagnosed in November, and lived for about 8 months.  This hurt so much, I can't even tell you. 

Well, just when I think it's all over...2 days after my father passed away, my mother was taken to the hospital.  The next day, we come to find out that she has a herniated disc in her back.  Keep in mind, however, on top of that, she was also diagnosed with MS about 5 years back.  Well, after surgery, she is still unable to walk, nearly 4 months to the day.

That's my story.  Sorry if you didn't want to read it, but it makes me feel a lot better to let the folks that know me know that I didn't just walk out on them. 

Anyways, I think I'm ready to come back.  I am still an avid collector, and soon I'll get some pictures for you all of my games and room.  And yes folks, I am now around 500 DS games and still counting!

Ken

Holy crap!  I forgot the good news!

My job is going really well!

Oh, and my wife is now 10 weeks pregnant and we have a heartbeat!!!

Ken

Heya Ken, glad to see you made it through your hard times at least somewhat intact.

10 weeks, thats exciting!! I think it was around 18 weeks if your lucky during the ultrasound you can possibly tell the sex. My sons 6 months old today. I wish you lots of luck this time, because it sounds like you've been through some horrible times in the last little while. Keep us updated!!!

Glad to see you back Ken. I'm sorry to hear about your tragedies, but glad to see that you've managed to stay strong throughout.

I know we've never met but that sounds tragic. My mom had a miscarriage as well about ten years back so I know the feel. I wish you luck and I'll certainly keep you in prayers.

By the way my name's Austin. Hope we talk sometime=]

Sorry to hear about family.  I bet hearing that heartbeat was really cool.  I have two kids and thought it was great.  If your insurance lets you.  Get the 3d scan when it gets a little further.  You'll be amazed.

But I'm glad to see you back. I can't wait to see what 500 DS games looks like :)

I too am sorry for the hardships. I know the felling of loosing an unborn child because i lost my 1st. Glad to see you hung in their and didn't give up. You know they do say every time you lose someone, someone new is born in this world. I know that may sound harsh to many but i am a firm believer. I lost both my grandmothers and 1 of my grandfathers. My youngest little boy and my girls remind me of them in many of ways.

Welcome back Ken.

Sorry to hear about the losses Ken, but welcome back to RFG :)

welcome back! (I'm still new but welcome back! haha) sorry to hear about your troubles but glad you made it through them. Impressive ds collection  :o

Hi there Ken. Sounds like you've been through some rought times. I'm glad things are going better now and welcome back to the forums! :)

Welcome back Ken.  Sorry to hear about your losses.  I'm elated how things are looking up for you now.  Keep us informed how the pregnancy is going.

hey Ken, good to see you back!

sorry to hear the rough stuff and like the rest of the gang I too hope things continue to turn around.

500 DS games? wow!

Its really nice to see you back, and I'm really sorry to hear about all of the bad things that have happened.  Good luck, and welcome back.

Wow that was a lot to go thru in such a short time.

Glad to hear things are turning around. It will be good to have you back.
And i can probably guarantee you no one thought you were just up and disappearing. on us.

Welcome back and continued luck with everything :)

My condolences on the losses you've suffered.  Please do not be offended that I will keep your family in prayer.  And Congrats on the progress of your child!  The first time I heard my first son's heartbeat, my world became a different, better place :)

Hi Ken, welcome back!

I am sorry to hear about the losses you have had recently, and am glad to hear that things are getting better. We've certainly missed you here, and we're glad to see you back. I hope the future is bright for you!

Welcome home man.  Its always tragic when things happen like this but they are beyond our control.  Thank you for sharing your ordeals with us.  The loss of your father, the efforts to have a child, and the fear of loosing your mother?  Those are all things that would wear anyone down if not tear them apart.  Hopefully things are finaly taking a turn for the better.  It cant rain all the time can it?

Welcome back! sorry to hear about your loss,  I had a loss to this year and everything seemed o go wrong at once. Im happy to he abot your gain of a "living organisim"...Ok I should say kid..but Im obsessed with the Alien movies. First thing that comes to mind when ppl get egged........ always!

Egged?  Never heard that one before.  Anyways,  You guys found out what you're having yet?

Hi,although i am new glad you are back and I'm really sorry to hear about all of the bad things that have happened .Anyway,be here when you are free and remember to took more time with your family too.They are still the first pirority for you.