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Title: Thoughts on Garage Sale etiquette.
Post by: GrayGhost81 on May 13, 2013, 10:38:27 AM
On Saturday there were town-wide garage sales in my town. They were to start at 9:00am.

The first place I went to wasn't set up at all (the weather was sketchy) but the lady (who called out to me in the street to ask what I was looking for) was kind enough to go inside and grab some PS2 games for me to look at. It was about 8:30 at this point.

I went across the street and there was some stuff set up at another house. I told the woman there that I knew I was early but since I was walking I asked if she didn't mind me looking. I added that I was looking for video games.

She said she had been asked for video games three times already, and that her husband had a bunch, but she didn't appreciate people yelling out of their car windows to ask for them.

I knew that for the rest of the day I was beat. I mean, I was walking.

I've run into this stuff before in years past but that was my refresher in the lows people will stoop to for a good grab.

So please guys, tell me you don't do this.

People who rudely shout out of their cars at people give collectors a bad name, because the average Joe doesn't know the difference between a collector and a reseller/dealer.

If you do run into it, how do you deal with it?

So at that second house the woman went and got her husband, who took my info and called me the next day and sold me some decent stuff for cheap (I posted in small scores yesterday). So my weekend wasn't a wash. In fact I made out better because I made a new friend who runs into a lot of stuff in his job (he's a garbage man).

I've been tempted by the "if you can't beat them, join them" mentality but I just can't bring myself to drive around to people's garage sales way before they start and yell out my car window like some savage. It's just incredibly rude to me.

Sorry if this rant is on the confusing side. I'm at work and writing in drips and drabs. Let's discuss!


Title: Re: Thoughts on Garage Sale etiquette.
Post by: tactical_nuke on May 13, 2013, 10:44:24 AM
That sounds very rude and also it takes the fun out of searching!


Title: Re: Thoughts on Garage Sale etiquette.
Post by: techwizard on May 13, 2013, 09:19:53 PM
for me the joy is in the hunt, and there's no joy in drive-by shopping. also many people running garage sales are selling things in there that aren't theirs, like kids/grandkid's stuff, and they aren't likely to know much about it. to them anything in a dvd style case is a movie, or anything in a jewel case is a CD. if you ask for video games they might not know that they even have some. so those doing the drive-by shopping might think they're saving time, but they're really just risking missing a jackpot find to save just a few minutes of their time.


Title: Re: Thoughts on Garage Sale etiquette.
Post by: GrayGhost81 on May 14, 2013, 05:02:59 AM
Excellent point techwizard. I follow that advice at trift shops too, even if they have a video game section there's always something mixed in with the DVDs or CDs.


Title: Re: Thoughts on Garage Sale etiquette.
Post by: Addicted on May 14, 2013, 08:21:34 AM
for me the joy is in the hunt, and there's no joy in drive-by shopping. also many people running garage sales are selling things in there that aren't theirs, like kids/grandkid's stuff, and they aren't likely to know much about it. to them anything in a dvd style case is a movie, or anything in a jewel case is a CD. if you ask for video games they might not know that they even have some. so those doing the drive-by shopping might think they're saving time, but they're really just risking missing a jackpot find to save just a few minutes of their time.

Couldn't agree more. Always take the time to look. Also always look under the table. I found a box of loose genesis games that had MUSHA, Zero Wing, and Sparkster (cart only) for $5 each.


Title: Re: Thoughts on Garage Sale etiquette.
Post by: GrayGhost81 on May 14, 2013, 08:44:52 AM
Another excellent point. Gotta look in those boxes full of loose toys.

I'm really glad no one has read my original post and said "Yeah I yell out my car window, what of it?"


Title: Re: Thoughts on Garage Sale etiquette.
Post by: slackur on May 14, 2013, 09:56:30 AM
Another excellent point. Gotta look in those boxes full of loose toys.

I'm really glad no one has read my original post and said "Yeah I yell out my car window, what of it?"


Well, I do, but only because the one time I walked up to the drive-thru on foot, they wouldn't take my order.  True story.

But yeah, yelling out of your car at Garage Sale folks is just rude and uncool.  I agree with my fellow RFGeners, the hunt is the thing.


Title: Re: Thoughts on Garage Sale etiquette.
Post by: A8scooter on May 14, 2013, 11:38:21 AM
I never shout out the window at anyone having a sale. Remember yes they are having a sale but also you are a guest on their property and can be asked to leave at any time.

I love the hunt for games for my collection. Yet there are times that Ill buy games for resale if they are at the right price and do me no good. Searching all areas including toys books and music ( 8 tracks and cassettes ) you would be surprised where a game will turn up. I look through the books too for games cause some get mixed in or program books for old atari 8 bits get worked in there too. usually 25 to 50 cents ea.

Even if I dont find anything in my travels I go out of my way to thank the people having the sale and I make sure to tell them to have a good day.  This also in a way pays it forward for the "merry tag sale" companies that go around town to town helping with doing garage/ estate sales. If you do it enough people remember you cause you stand out ( well not anymore after y'all start doing it ). They also listen to what your looking for and will let you know when you walk in the door " Hey, they are selling XYZ down in the basement i dont know if its still there or if youd be interested but take a look." Catch more flys with honey than vinegar.

Slackur, well its people like you yelling out of the window at the drive through that people like me get the wrong order when I speak calmly at em.  ;)


Title: Re: Thoughts on Garage Sale etiquette.
Post by: slackur on May 14, 2013, 02:12:59 PM
Slackur, well its people like you yelling out of the window at the drive through that people like me get the wrong order when I speak calmly at em.  ;)

I know, I'm sorry.  It's the three smaller voices in the car all asking for junk food that I have to be heard over.  :P

I'd say about half of my worthwhile yard sale finds include the seller saying something like, "huh, I didn't even know that was in there."  So even if I were prone to drive-by shouting, I'd miss all sorts of goodies.


Title: Re: Thoughts on Garage Sale etiquette.
Post by: Leynos on May 14, 2013, 04:07:34 PM
I love to hunt. Part of the joy. I always just walk to the yard sale and just look around myself.


Title: Re: Thoughts on Garage Sale etiquette.
Post by: Shadow Kisuragi on May 14, 2013, 05:58:04 PM
You guys find things at yard sales? I usually hear something along the lines of "I just sold everything a few minutes ago". I've missed many a yard sale gold mine, including 600+ UNIQUE ATARI 2600 CARTS WITH MANUALS SOLD FOR $50. At least I found some Nintendo luggage at that sale. I hate living in a city that likely borders on 80% reseller/20% collector mix.


Title: Re: Thoughts on Garage Sale etiquette.
Post by: techwizard on May 14, 2013, 07:00:14 PM
You guys find things at yard sales? I usually hear something along the lines of "I just sold everything a few minutes ago". I've missed many a yard sale gold mine, including 600+ UNIQUE ATARI 2600 CARTS WITH MANUALS SOLD FOR $50. At least I found some Nintendo luggage at that sale. I hate living in a city that likely borders on 80% reseller/20% collector mix.

i don't drive and also tend to sleep in so i usually miss out on garage sales, and nearby they're usually pretty dry anyway. but it's still fun to look, you never know what you might find.


Title: Re: Thoughts on Garage Sale etiquette.
Post by: GrayGhost81 on May 14, 2013, 07:01:20 PM
Shadow, that makes me feel a little bit better. It's not that bad here (Northern NJ).

Town-Wides attract out of staters too, that is always a huge issue for me.


Title: Re: Thoughts on Garage Sale etiquette.
Post by: Leynos on May 14, 2013, 07:43:28 PM
You guys find things at yard sales? I usually hear something along the lines of "I just sold everything a few minutes ago". I've missed many a yard sale gold mine, including 600+ UNIQUE ATARI 2600 CARTS WITH MANUALS SOLD FOR $50. At least I found some Nintendo luggage at that sale. I hate living in a city that likely borders on 80% reseller/20% collector mix.

Last year I found a Platinum Gamecube with Game Boy Player attached for 15$ as they were closing up


Title: Re: Thoughts on Garage Sale etiquette.
Post by: Shadow Kisuragi on May 14, 2013, 08:00:10 PM
You guys find things at yard sales? I usually hear something along the lines of "I just sold everything a few minutes ago". I've missed many a yard sale gold mine, including 600+ UNIQUE ATARI 2600 CARTS WITH MANUALS SOLD FOR $50. At least I found some Nintendo luggage at that sale. I hate living in a city that likely borders on 80% reseller/20% collector mix.

Last year I found a Platinum Gamecube with Game Boy Player attached for 15$ as they were closing up

Think the last cartridge I found at a yard sale was Quake 64 loose for $15... yet, they were more than happy to give me all of their N64 manuals for free.


Title: Re: Thoughts on Garage Sale etiquette.
Post by: NES_Rules on May 14, 2013, 08:47:49 PM
Reading through the original post, I thought this was going to be about going to sales before they start, which I do do on occasion. I've been to some where they have a "no early birds" sign up at the driveway, some where there's a line of the regulars waiting for the sale to start, and others that have no problem letting people check stuff out early, even if they're still setting up. But I've never seen anyone just drive by and shout at the sellers about what they're selling. Aside from someone being physically disabled, I can't imagine there ever being an acceptable reason to do that.
If I come across a "shouter" like that, I'd give them a hot tip about an amazing sale on the other side of town (that doesn't actually exist) just to make them waste some time driving out there for no reason.


Title: Re: Thoughts on Garage Sale etiquette.
Post by: GrayGhost81 on May 17, 2013, 08:52:51 AM
I actually don't have a problem with early-birding, when done reasonably and only if you ask first before wandering around on the person's property.

Edit: That doesn't apply in "no early-birds" situations.


Title: Re: Thoughts on Garage Sale etiquette.
Post by: Shadow Kisuragi on May 17, 2013, 09:02:37 AM
I actually don't have a problem with early-birding, when done reasonably and only if you ask first before wandering around on the person's property.

Edit: That doesn't apply in "no early-birds" situations.

Tell that to all the people that list that in their adverts, yet I get there right when it opens and they've already sold all the good stuff.


Title: Re: Thoughts on Garage Sale etiquette.
Post by: GrayGhost81 on May 17, 2013, 10:24:41 AM
I actually don't have a problem with early-birding, when done reasonably and only if you ask first before wandering around on the person's property.

Edit: That doesn't apply in "no early-birds" situations.

Tell that to all the people that list that in their adverts, yet I get there right when it opens and they've already sold all the good stuff.

I feel your pain. Money talks I guess.

To be honest I've never tried early-birding a "no early-birds" sale.

It just feels like "What? You don't want my money?"


Title: Re: Thoughts on Garage Sale etiquette.
Post by: Cryptid Collector on May 17, 2013, 12:39:13 PM
I think the worst I've seen was from THE SELLER, I was at a sale the other day, asked about some prices and the old fart looked up the prices on Ebay RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME, and didn't even know what he was doing in the first place. Tried to get me to pay $10 for three NES controllers, a Zapper, and a power supply that had the cords repaired with Duct Tape.


Title: Re: Thoughts on Garage Sale etiquette.
Post by: Shadow Kisuragi on May 17, 2013, 12:53:14 PM
I think the worst I've seen was from THE SELLER, I was at a sale the other day, asked about some prices and the old fart looked up the prices on Ebay RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME, and didn't even know what he was doing in the first place. Tried to get me to pay $10 for three NES controllers, a Zapper, and a power supply that had the cords repaired with Duct Tape.

That's better than the going rate in my area...


Title: Re: Thoughts on Garage Sale etiquette.
Post by: blcklblskt on May 17, 2013, 02:56:21 PM
I think the worst I've seen was from THE SELLER, I was at a sale the other day, asked about some prices and the old fart looked up the prices on Ebay RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME, and didn't even know what he was doing in the first place. Tried to get me to pay $10 for three NES controllers, a Zapper, and a power supply that had the cords repaired with Duct Tape.

That's better than the going rate in my area...

Yeah, three controllers and a Zapper is pretty good for $10.  I'd be charged $10 a controller by the resellers in my area.


Title: Re: Thoughts on Garage Sale etiquette.
Post by: techwizard on May 17, 2013, 02:57:57 PM
I think the worst I've seen was from THE SELLER, I was at a sale the other day, asked about some prices and the old fart looked up the prices on Ebay RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME, and didn't even know what he was doing in the first place. Tried to get me to pay $10 for three NES controllers, a Zapper, and a power supply that had the cords repaired with Duct Tape.

That's better than the going rate in my area...

Yeah, three controllers and a Zapper is pretty good for $10.  I'd be charged $10 a controller by the resellers in my area.

same, even if you counted the power supply as free because it's damaged that works out to only $2.50 per controller/zapper, that sounds like a good deal to me


Title: Re: Thoughts on Garage Sale etiquette.
Post by: Cryptid Collector on May 17, 2013, 03:48:38 PM
No, I meant all of them were repaired with Duct Tape, in multiple places.


Title: Re: Thoughts on Garage Sale etiquette.
Post by: techwizard on May 17, 2013, 04:11:45 PM
No, I meant all of them were repaired with Duct Tape, in multiple places.

oh, well if they were all crap then that's different


Title: Re: Thoughts on Garage Sale etiquette.
Post by: Cryptid Collector on May 17, 2013, 04:24:05 PM
No, I meant all of them were repaired with Duct Tape, in multiple places.

oh, well if they were all crap then that's different

They looked like someone had run the cords over with a mower and pieced them back together, 2-3 "repairs" or more per cord.


Title: Re: Thoughts on Garage Sale etiquette.
Post by: techwizard on June 09, 2013, 05:04:37 PM
i found something new to add to garage sale etiquette. as a seller, don't go to another person's garage sale and advertise your own sale. my sister and i had setup a yard sale this morning and early on, someone came by and browsed around a bit, didn't buy anything. on his way out he passed some other people browsing and started going on to them about how his sale down the street has "tens of thousands of things for sale, i just unpacked 25 boxes and have a thousand more" and "whatever you want, i have it". he went on like this for a good 3 or 4 minutes. this is a new no-no in my books.


Title: Re: Thoughts on Garage Sale etiquette.
Post by: cverz2 on June 09, 2013, 06:03:34 PM
I have never yelled out of my car at a yard sale.

I love the hunt.  Searching through vcr tapes, dvd's, books, toys. etc. for that unexpected find.

Plus I look for more than just video games.  I also look for lego's for my boy. Pink frilly stuff for my daughter. and other stuff that catches my eyes.


Title: Re: Thoughts on Garage Sale etiquette.
Post by: GrayGhost81 on June 09, 2013, 06:06:26 PM
I have never yelled out of my car at a yard sale.

I love the hunt.  Searching through vcr tapes, dvd's, books, toys. etc. for that unexpected find.

Plus I look for more than just video games.  I also look for lego's for my boy. Pink frilly stuff for my daughter. and other stuff that catches my eyes.

It's good to have other things besides video games, especially with how they go so quick. I'm always looking for books, tools, musical instruments and other stuff most of the time too.

I have a mental checklist of things my friends are looking for as well.


Title: Re: Thoughts on Garage Sale etiquette.
Post by: A8scooter on June 10, 2013, 06:40:25 AM
I agree with cerv2

I don't go in only to get games only garage sale yard sales flea markets I look at everything and see what catches my eye

The flea market this past Saturday yielded me an Atari 7800 console only.
2 hot wheels 48 car cases for 2.50 ea
The .50 hot wheels bins I found some nice old Lesneys and a red line hot wheel from 68-69.


Other visits I have found 1950s 7Up coolers from 3-10. I pick em up cause they are old and should be worth at least the few $ I'm paying. I'd think at least.


Title: Re: Thoughts on Garage Sale etiquette.
Post by: SlasherNES on June 11, 2013, 07:30:33 AM
Best grab I ever had at a garage sale was about 11yrs ago. It was a functioning Atari w/ 3 controllers, power adapter, tv connector and about 35 games for $5! They didn't know if it worked or not, glad it did! ;)